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Tuesday, July 17, 2012

Mint Chocolate Chip Anyone?

A few weeks back my Mother, her husband, and their 3 adopted kids were visiting.
Before they came I asked my Mother, "What is your favorite dessert flavor"?
I already knew the answer, but she responded with, "Mint & Chocolate".
I was on a mission to find and make a SPECIAL treat just for them that would be custom flavored for their tongues!  

HERE IS WHAT YOU'LL NEED:
CAKE
-1/2 cup butter, softened
-1-1/2 cups sugar
-2 eggs
-1-1/2 cups flour
-9 Tablespoons unsweetened cocoa powder
-1/2 teaspoon salt
-1 teaspoon baking soda
-1/2 teaspoon baking powder
-1/2 cup brewed coffee, cooled
-1/2 cup milk

Mix coffee and milk together and set aside.
Beat butter and sugar for about 5 minutes until smooth.
In a separate bowl, sift cocoa with the flour.
Add baking soda and powder and set aside. 
Beat in one egg at a time.
Slowly add the dry ingredients alternating with the coffee/milk mixture.
Mix well.
Grease and flour 2 pans.
I had hoped of doing 2 round pans, but then realized I only had one...so I did a square and a circle.
Pour cake batter into pans.
Bake at 350ยบ for about 25 minutes.
Remove and allow to cool at least 10 minutes before removing from pans.
Cool completely before frosting.
**Psst...I have a secret.  When I make cakes or cupcakes I normally freeze them overnight before I frost them.
This ensures that they are fully chilled and it locks in the moisture, but the time you are ready to serve they will be thawed and deliciously moist**
FROSTING
-1 cup butter, softened
-7 cups powdered sugar
-2 teaspoons peppermint extract or less if you aren't as keen on peppermint.
-1/2 cup milk plus 2 Tablespoons
-1 bag of special dark chocolate chips
-Green food coloring (as much as you like to make as green as you like)
Beat butter and powdered sugar and milk 3-5 minutes until smooth and creamy.
Add food coloring and extract to mixture.
I suggest the extract before the food coloring so that if you taste test the frosting you won't end up with a green mouth ;) 
Mix well.
Fold in your chocolate chips.
Retrieve your cakes from wherever you are storing them and begin frosting!
I did not frost in-between the cake layers which may be why I have a container of left over frosting in my freezer waiting for me to whip up some cupcakes!
When you are done....server it up!
I hope you can find a reason to indulge in this tasty treat!

Have a Blessed Tuesday!

Monday, July 16, 2012

Summer Tomato, Corn, Avocado, & Crab Salad

I know I showed this recipe to you around Father's Day.
I'm sorry it's taken me so long to share it with you.
I hope you aren't upset!
It is worth the wait I promise!!!

Here is What You'll Need:
-12 oz of lump crab meat (we used imitation crab $2.50/12 oz and it tasted great)
-1 teaspoon olive oil
-2 teaspoons chopped cilantro
-salt and pepper to taste
-1 pint grape tomatoes, cut in half
-2 jalapenos, seeded and diced
-1-1/2 cups of roasted corn kernels
I literally took frozen corn, placed it on an aluminum foil lined cookie sheet and broiled until it was roasted.
-1/3 cup chopped red onion
-1 avocado, diced
-2 limes juiced
Look at all those colors!
In a small bowl mix the onion, lime, oil, salt, and pepper and let them sit a few minutes.
In a large bowl mix the crab, avocado, tomatoes, pepper, and corn.
Finally mix everything together and serve over a bed of romaine lettuce.
This dish is scrumptious!!!

*It is about 6 servings and approximately 130 calories (not including the romaine)**

I hope you have a Blessed Monday!

Friday, July 13, 2012

Bible Verse Friday

"And this is the way to have eternal life-to know you, the only true God, and Jesus Christ, the one you sent to earth".
~John 17:3

My NLT Life Application Study Bible Says the following:

How do we get eternal life?  Jesus tells us clearly here--by knowing God the Father himself through his son, Jesus Christ.  Eternal life requires entering into a personal relationship with God in Jesus Christ.  When we admit our sin and turn away from it, Christs's love lives in us by the Holy Spirit.

This verse has been referred to as the "Definition of Eternal Life".
Simply know who God is and who Jesus was will not guarantee your everlasting salvation.
There is so much more to knowing them.
I know who the mailman is, but I don't KNOW him as a person.
I have no idea what his dreams, goals, struggles, etc are.
When we commit to knowing God we are committing to learning more about him.
Building the relationship that will fulfill both of you beyond your wildest dreams.

Knowing God is not as easy as going to church.
Who he is will not JUMP out at you as you read the Bible.
His love for you will not be fully encapsulated in worship songs.
But all of those things are small glimpses at the message he is trying to share with you.
As you go to church you must make a vow to not take the sermon at face value.
You should take notes or at the very least write down the verses that are shared with you.
Later when you find time you should open your Bible, ask God to guide your eyes to see what he has for you, and review the verses that were discussed.
Make sure they were used in proper context.
When you are finished pray that God will help you fully comprehend what you have read.
Sing his praises.
All of these things will help you to learn who God is and who Jesus Christ was.

By knowing him, by loving him, by giving yourself to him you are guaranteeing your eternal life.


Take a moment to focus on your relationship with God right now.
Apologize if you haven't been able to give him the time he deserves, I know I am guilty of this.
Thank him for his many blessings.
Ask him to guide you as you progress through your days.
These small steps will add up and your relationship with him with grow beyond what I can explain.


I hope you have a Blessed Friday! 


Thursday, July 12, 2012

Exclusive Pumping Part 2


**I normally show y'all a craft of some type on Thursdays, but for this month I'd like to share my breastfeeding experience in hopes that I might help someone else out there**

***ALSO, please note that I am not in any way trying to put down those who formula feed.  Every mother must do what is best for her and her baby.  I know there are many reasons for why each mother chooses how and for how long she does her chosen method.  This is a place to support each other and help each other, thank you***


Last week I introduced you to the supplies you will need to successfully become an exclusive pumper.
This week I'd like to tell you a little bit about how often and for how long you should pump.
During my early days, especially during the engorgement and mastitis, I was pumping as often as she was eating.  
Every 2-3 hours for about 15-20 minutes.
I know what your thinking, that sounds exhausting!
Well, yes, as a matter of fact it was, however, I don't think it's much different than nursing an newborn.
As Bitsy started to eat more at each sitting and her feedings became fewer and fewer apart so did my pumping sessions.
However, when I did pump I pumped until nothing came out.
That meant that sometimes, especially towards the end, I was pumping for 45-50 minutes.

Now there is no science behind when and how long to pump.
The best thing is to listen to your own body.
One thing to keep in mind, however, is that you should pump until you have nothing coming out and then you should continue to pump for a few more minutes.
This does one major thing that is uber important for you to be able to not only provide for baby, but to also build a stock pile for future use.
By pumping 'nothing' for a few minutes you are telling your body that you need more.
Thus, over time your body will produce more and more, giving you the extra that is needed for your stockpile.
I have heard from friends that their doctor tells them not to do this because it will lead to over production...let me just say I am not seeing or hearing a problem with the concept of 'over' production.
Is there really such a thing?
After all you never know when baby may hit a growth spurt and need that extra milk.
Traditionally breastfed babies are typically on demand eaters meaning that the get what the body has when it has it.
As EPers we don't know how much our little one would be getting if they were nursing so it is best for us to stimulate production and have 'too much' vs. not enough.

So in the early days, as I stated above, I pumped 15-20 minutes every 2-3 hours.
If it was 9 am and I pumped and finished at 9:15 that meant that the next pump session needed to start between 11-12.  You include your pumping time in the 2-3 hour window.
I was pumping between 8 and 10 times per day.
Slowly I dropped one session and then another...and gradually over time allowed myself 4 hours between sessions.
6 sessions a day will feel drastically different, in fact each time you drop a session you will ultimately feel as though you have more time on your hands.
Yes, even if your pumping sessions become longer, the 'missing' session is still a freeing experience as you won't be tethered down.
While I transitioned from 6-5 sessions a day, I would have days when I pumped 6 and others when I would only pump 5 times.
I had allotted myself 8 hours at night when I didn't need to pump and you will learn that when you do this morning pumps are the most important pumps of the day.
These are the sessions where you will pump the longest and yield the largest supply.
Sometimes my pumping from this session was enough to provide for Bitsy's needs for that entire day and the remaining pumps were all stored and frozen for our stockpile.
No other pump session yielded anywhere near what my morning session did.
The good thing was that during the early days Bitsy wasn't mobile so I could sit on the floor with her and pump while she played and attempted to roll around.

I will say that a few times I dropped sessions out of time constraint vs. anything else.
For example, going on vacation at Christmas forced me to drop down to 4 sessions that lasted about 30-35 minutes each.
I didn't always have the luxury of pumping when I normally would at home and unlike a traditional breastfeeding experience I didn't have the luxury of feeding while among family or out in public.  Image walking around with your pump hooked up...not quite the same as lovingly snuggling up and nursing your baby.
The next time I traveled it happened that I was in the airport the vast majority of the day with little time during layovers or no where to set up.
It was because of that situation that reducing to 3x a day occurred.
I did not reduce beyond 3x a day until I was ready to wean.
Keep in mind that when I was pumping 3x a day each session was around 45 minutes.
This seems lengthy, but if you can get a good system the time will fly.
As I stated I would sit on the floor with Bitsy, we would play and I could turn on an episode of a TV show, by the time it was done, I was almost done.
I advise you keep a diaper nearby, in the event of a blowout...traipsing across the room to acquire a diaper while simultaneously being tethered to the wall and attempting not to unhook or allow the baby to grab your tubes is not what I would call a fun activity.

**IMPORTANT**
Another thing to keep by you while you are pumping is EXTRA bottles!
When bottles become full, the last thing you want is to attempt to unhook and rush to the kitchen to swap out.
The times I did this I lost momentum and ultimately didn't pump quite as much.
In the early days I could pump straight into the 5oz bottles, but as I dropped sessions and each session yielded more I gradually increased to hooking up with 9oz bottles.  
Occasionally, I would fill a 9oz bottle on one or both sides and need to swap out for a 5oz bottle to catch the remaining 1 to 2 oz I still needed to pump.
That's right, you read that correctly...my 1st pumps of the day could yield between 18 and 24oz!!!
I had days where my total production was 50 oz +/- a few ounces. 
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Now this is all fine and dandy, but how do you go about storing all this milk?
I found this video and it is genius!

Source: youtube.com via Biz on Pinterest

I always stored my milk in the Lanisoh freezer bags.
I limited each bag to 4 oz as they seem to freeze flat a little better than if you put 5 oz in.
But, whatever amount you choose to fill your bags, the above videos storage concept is awesome!
At the time that I weaned I had 30 gift bags full of milk.
Each gift bag held 20 bags filled to 4oz each.
That comes out to 2400 oz of milk!!!
Most babies top out at 40 oz per day so that meant I had 60 days guaranteed freezer supply.
I weaned when Bitsy was almost 9 months.
She consumes between 30-35 oz a day which gives us 68-80 days at this point in time.
I know that babies should not go onto cow's milk until at least age one so it does look like Bitsy will consume formula for the last month to month and a half before she is one.
I would have liked to have provided for her until she was one, however, we would like to try for baby number 2 (we've always wanted them to be close in age) and I needed to wean to get back on cycle.
Please do not judge, this is a judge free zone.
I know that I have a healthy happy baby and the health benefits, in my opinion, aren't nearly as great now as they were in the beginning.

Being an EPer, this card rings OH so true.
I hope this makes you giggle a little!

I hope that this post has helped answer some questions about exclusive pumping, what it is, who we are and how it can be done.

If you have any questions or if you think I've forgotten to cover a particular area (which I may or might have)...please leave a comment or shoot me a message!
I want to make sure this is a thorough and helpful guide for anyone who is struggling with breastfeeding and thinks that the only other option is formula, there are other options.


I hope you all have a Blessed Thursday!

additional sources:
http://pumpingrules.blogspot.com/
Exclusively Pumping

Wednesday, July 11, 2012

What We Did Wednesday...Uncle B comes to visit!

Have I ever mentioned how much I enjoy having house guests?
Well I do.
I love making up the guest bed.
I love making a special treat for my guests.
I just love having guests.
This past weekend my brother-in-law came for a quick visit.
He's in South Carolina for some Army Chaplin training and since it's only a 3 hours drive he thought he would take the opportunity to come visit us!
Saturday we decided to take him to the Airborne & Special Operations Museum.
Bud was in a special mood trying to incorporate Uncle B & himself into as many of the displays as possible...
Peek-a-boo!
Casual conversation in the midst of battle....
Can you see the family resemblance?
SURPRISE!!!
We ventured out to the memorial garden and snapped a picture of Uncle B under the Army sign.
It was VERY hot outside.
That afternoon we lounged around watching tv and the guys played PS3.
Bitsy warmed up to Uncle B and crawled over multiple times to try to pull up near him.

Sunday we brought Uncle B to our church and played some Wii as a family while Bitsy napped.
Before Uncle B headed back to SC we took the opportunity to snap a few pictures.
Uncle B, Bitsy, & Bud
Bitsy is so loved!
Uncle B & Bitsy making matching faces :P
Brothers!
This is the last time there will be a picture of both of them wearing glasses.
Bud is getting LASIK today!
The Air Force is paying for it (YEAH) and as jealous as I am (because I wish they would pay for me to get it), I am very excited for him!
I will get my eyes done someday...after we have our student loans paid off and I'm done having babies!
All in all it was a very blessed weekend and Uncle B is already planning to make another quick trip up before he finishes his training in SC.
I feel so blessed that so much of our family has made Bitsy such a priority!
There is no doubt that she is loved by many!

Well I'm off to bring Bud for his surgery...

I hope you all have a Blessed Wednesday!